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Date Selection for Marriage
Date selection for marriage is the most highly regarded field of date selection (Ze Ri) in traditional Chinese culture. An auspicious wedding date is not only symbolic of good fortune, but is also believed to influence the long-term harmony of the marriage.
Basic Principles of Date Selection for Marriage
- Avoid highly inauspicious days — Days with a clash, Year Clash, and Three Killings must never be used.
- Choose days graced by auspicious symbolic stars — Days graced by Heavenly Joy, Heavenly Virtue, and Monthly Virtue are optimal.
- Do not clash the couple's BaZi — The date must not clash or check the Year Pillars of the bride and groom.
- Prioritize the bride — Traditionally, the bride's BaZi serves as the primary reference.
- Select an auspicious hour — Within the chosen auspicious day, the optimal hour is then selected.
Auspicious Months for Marriage
Traditionally, there is a distinction between "greatly auspicious months" and "minor auspicious months," which are determined by the woman's zodiac sign:
- Rat: 6th month, 12th month (greatly auspicious); 1st month, 7th month (minor auspicious)
- Ox: 5th month, 11th month (greatly auspicious); 4th month, 10th month (minor auspicious)
- By analogy, each zodiac sign has corresponding greatly auspicious months and minor auspicious months.
Dates That Must Be Avoided
- Red Gauze Days — A major taboo for marriage.
- Yang Gong Taboo Days — Folk taboo days.
- Four Departures and Four Absolutes — Days marking the transition of Yin and Yang.
- Destruction Days — Destruction days among the Twelve Resting Deities.
- Sanniang Sha — The 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd, and 27th of every lunar month.
The Most Auspicious Symbolic Stars for Marriage
- Heavenly Joy — Days graced by the God of Joy are the most suitable for marriage.
- Heavenly Virtue and Monthly Virtue — Auspicious for all endeavors, including marriage.
- Six-Harmony Pair — A symbol of harmony and union, beneficial for joining together.
- Heavenly Forgiveness — Free of all taboos, highly auspicious.
- Auspicious Marriage Days — Days specifically designated as suitable for matrimony.
Modern Date Selection for Marriage
When modern couples select a wedding date, they often need to balance traditional date selection with practical considerations:
- Weekends and holidays (convenient for guests to attend)
- Public holidays (such as National Day, New Year's Day)
- Both parties' work schedules
- Venue availability
It is recommended to first determine a general timeframe, and then select the most suitable day within it. If the traditional greatly auspicious month conflicts with practical arrangements, a minor auspicious month is also an acceptable choice.
Important Considerations
Date selection is merely a supplementary factor in a happy marriage; what truly determines the quality of a marriage is the couple's personalities, values, and attitude toward managing their relationship. Choosing a good day is done for an auspicious sentiment, but there is no need to be overly superstitious.